Wednesday, January 25, 2012

I'm Hopeless.........Like a Penny with a Hole in it

"Hello morning, now when does the fun begin
Goodbye morning, sorry it had to end
But see I cried just a little too long
Now it's time for me to be strong
Hello morning, I sure missed you last night
Goodbye morning, you just won't do me right
I stayed just a little too long Now it's time for me to move on

They say I'm hopeless, as a penny wit a hole in it
Penny wit a, penny wit a hole in it, yeah, yeah, yeah
They say I'm no less, no less, no less, no less, no less
Than up to my head in it

Hello yesterday, I sure need you now
Goodbye yesterday, I just can't stay around
You see I cried just a little too long
Now it's time for me to be strong
Hello yesterday, remember how it used to be
Goodbye yesterday, I can't take you with me
You see I stayed just a little too long
And now it's time for me to move on

They say I'm hopeless, as a penny wit a hole in it

Penny wit a, penny wit a hole in it, yeah, yeah, yeah
They say I'm no less, no less, no less, no less, no less
Than up to my head in it"
Rachelle Ferrell

Okay, I know that sounds all sad and depressing but I'm actually happy today!  So why did I pick this song?  Because this song isn't depressing to me : )  Maybe it's the beat or maybe because it's from Love Jones, but this song actually makes me kind of giddy and girly.  This is my "crush" song.  People that know me well know that I LOVE crushes : )  I have all types of crushes......celebrity crushes, love interest crushes, and regular crushes.  Regular crushes are the best. They are fun, flirty and no pressure.  Anyone can be your regular crush, even some one you know you could NEVER be in a relationship with.  You know him.  The guy you work with.  The really cute really nice guy that has too many kids and baby mamas.  That young tenderoni or extra distinguished grandpa.  That guy that lives in another city or state.  That cute charismatic guy that is a PLAYBOY!  Or that dude that just don't like you like that.  LOL!  There's plenty of crush material to go around.

But for regular crushes, there should be some rules, some limitations to this crush game just to make sure that......well........that you're not a pervert and to avoid any complications that might incur if you were to act on your crush.

1) Don't crush anyone that's involved long term...i.e. has a live-in girlfriend, wife, significant other
2) Don't crush anyone of illegal age.......under 18 or tooooo old........just PERVERTED
3) There's gotta be some shame or obstacle to your crush.....otherwise, you might as well go for it
4) No crushing your girl's ex........too much drama
5) No crushing same guy for over a yr.....you can go back, give it a break before it becomes obsession

But there are some gray areas....  what if the guy is an ex of an associate, not really a friend?  What if the guy is a friend of a guy that's interested in you?  What if an associate, not really a friend, liked the guy but he didn't like her? Hmmmmmm

I've had (ok, still HAVE) some weird crushes in my life.  I crushed a guy once just because he smiled whenever he saw me and went out of his way to speak; I crushed one dude who's friend tried to date me.....I never talk to that guy anymore but his friend and I are still cool; I had an old man crush...he would have been perfect if he was at least 5 yrs younger; I had a crush on a guy just because of a face he made....it was such an UGLY screw face but it had so much passion...LOL!

Celebrity Crushes
Mike Tomlin, Nick Saban, Ray Allen, Sean Connery, Clint Eastwood, Tyrese, Reggie Bush

body crush = Toni Braxton & Nia Long....they're both short too : )
skin crush = Gabrielle Union
hair crush = Queen Latifah & Toya....Toya's weave is ALWAYS on point

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